Sunday, December 9, 2012

Huffington Post article: Jenni Rivera Missing: Singer Involved In Suspected Plane Crash In Mexico

From Huffington Post: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/12/09/jenni-rivera-missing-involved-suspected-plane-crash-mexico_n_2267889.html

I have to admit, I don't like much of her music, but nevertheless, she is a talented singer. I'm praying that the plane is found and there are survivors, including her. :o(

Kira sandoval :o)

Friday, December 7, 2012

December 7, 1941- aka. Pearl Harbor

Today is one of the day's that lives in our minds and hearts... the day we lost many faithful service men and women, too many in my mind... and the day that set forth the US participation in WWII... it also is the day that caused the President to authorize the dropping of the a-bomb on Hiroshima.

Yes, I'm talking about the bombing of Pearl Harbor.

Take a few minutes out of your day today to pray for the men and women lost this day in 1941, and for the survivors, and all their families, and then pray for those who are overseas right now serving our country!

Monday, November 19, 2012

Fwd: Immigration Impact

Can you believe this?  SOOOOO exciting! :o)

Kira sandoval :o)

---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: "Immigration Impact" <Shoy111@gmail.com>
Date: Nov 16, 2012 1:22 PM
Subject: Immigration Impact
To: <kiraleesandoval@gmail.com>

Immigration Impact


BREAKING: DACA Approvals Surpass 50,000

Posted: 16 Nov 2012 12:41 PM PST

Earlier this afternoon, the Obama administration released updated statistics indicating that 53,273 undocumented youths have been granted relief under the Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals (DACA) program. As of November 15, U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) had received more than 300,000 requests for deferred action, with most applicants still awaiting the completion of background checks. The figures did not indicate how many beneficiaries have received work permits under the program or whether any requests for deferred action have been denied. At the rate the agency is processing applications, more than 100,000 requests for deferred action appear likely to be granted by the end of the year.

 

Including DACA Recipients in Health Care Reform

Posted: 16 Nov 2012 07:00 AM PST

By Jenny Rejeske, Health Policy Analyst National Immigration Law Center

The Obama administration's decision to cut access to affordable health care for young people granted relief from deportation hurts everyone. This decision came weeks after the administration initiated the Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals (DACA) policy, which lifts the cloud of deportation for immigrant youth who have grown up here. At the same time, the administration quietly issued policy changes excluding DACA recipients from federal health insurance programs, effectively shutting their door to affordable health care. 

As a result of the recent policy change, many DACA recipients, unable to purchase health coverage in the insurance exchanges like other taxpayers, will continue to remain uninsured. In essence, the Obama administration has provided immigrant youth with the tools they need to work, but denied them the right to take care of themselves.

We must ensure that immigrants gain both the rights and the responsibilities of all Americans.

  The restrictions were entirely unnecessary.  Existing federal rules would have allowed eligible DACA recipients, like others granted deferred action, to enroll in these health coverage programs. Instead, the administration excluded them and not for sound health policy reasons.

Discriminating against these young people places the health of children, youth, pregnant women and their newborns at risk, fails to ensure that young workers and students remain healthy and productive, and interferes with the cost-effective strategy of including healthy and young individuals in the nation's risk pool.  It emboldens anti-immigrant state lawmakers who would like nothing better than to deny DACA recipients drivers' licenses and other basic state services.  Most importantly, it undermines President Obama's repeated commitment to creating a roadmap to citizenship for these young people.

Luckily there has been an outpouring of opposition to the health coverage restrictions from a diverse coalition of groups – including immigrant rights, reproductive justice, health advocacy, health care providers, civil rights, faith-based, and anti-poverty groups – led by DREAMers and the United We Dream Network.  150 groups signed a UWD-led letter to the president opposing the changes.  A broad coalition of faith groups sent their own letter.  More than 350 groups submitted official comments to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services opposing the restriction to the ACA insurance programs.

This policy change could set a damaging precedent in how the federal government integrates immigrants more fully into our society.  As we push to have this exclusionary rule repealed, all of us must be prepared to fulfill President Obama's promise during health care reform – that any immigrants excluded from health care reform in 2010 – would be included after immigration reform.  As the administration and lawmakers gear up for immigration reform in 2013, only those proposals that provide a roadmap to citizenship for 11 million people and an opportunity to be healthy, productive, and full members of society, rather than second-class citizens, will provide true reform.

Discriminating against an immigrant by denying her the ability to purchase affordable care sends the message that she isn't worth the investment. It also clearly tells her that she has all the responsibilities, but none of the rights, of citizenship. We must ensure that immigrants gain both the rights and the responsibilities of all Americans.  Providing DACA beneficiaries with the freedom to purchase their own health care under the Affordable Care Act should be an easy first step.

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Wednesday, November 14, 2012

I'm deeply saddened.

I found out this morning that an online friend lost her husband to a tragic situation.

Her husband had been deported recently, and she finally went to Mexico to be with him for a while, just this past weekend. She had only been with him for two days... :'(

He was shot to death alongside three of his coworkers. Now two beautiful children are without their father and a wonderful woman is without her soulmate.

"We pray for blessings, we pray for peace. Comfort for family, protection while we sleep. We pray for healing... we pray for your mighty hand to ease our suffering..."  excerpt from Laura Story's song "Blessings"

Kira Sandoval :o)

Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Hurricane Sandy

Looks like Hurricane Sandy really did a number on the East Coast. I've only seen a few pictures as of last night, but things don't look too good. Thankfully things did not go as bad as some feared- as of this morning only 50 deaths have been reported, which is amazing considering the intensity of the storm.

I have many friends and some family back East. I did hear from my cousin, who lives in Baltimore, who mentioned trees went down on my Aunts property in Bethlehem, PA, but that was the worst for them thankfully. I also heard from a friend in NH, and she will have to replace her fence. I still have not heard from my friends in NY or NJ or DC, so I'm anxious to find out how they are!

Hopefully none of my followers were in the path of Sandy. If you were, praying that you were safe!

Kira sandoval :o)

Sunday, September 30, 2012

Pancreatic Cancer

So, I'm watching Long Island Medium, and the topic of pancreatic cancer comes up. One lady lost her husband to it, and another gentleman lost his brother to the same cancer. Here's the kicker, he himself is battling pancreatic cancer. Seeing Theresa, the medium, was on his bucket list. 

He mentions Michael Landon and Patrick Swayze as some others who were diagnosed with the cancer and did not survive. It makes me wonder- is pancreatic cancer one of the worst types of cancer? I need to do more research on it. :o(

I worry about this. A member of my church is battling pancreatic cancer right now. When this gentleman, Robert, mentioned Patrick Swayze, I thought about Ralph. Ralph is a very good looking gentleman in his 60's, who right now is starting to look thin like I remember seeing how Patrick was in his last few months before he died. 

Has anyone you know battled pancreatic cancer and survived? I'd like to know.

Friday, September 28, 2012

Hey You!!!

yes, YOU, who just happens to be following me on this blog!!!

Follow me everywhere! Go check out my other blogs and follow them as well! :o)  I have lots to say, MUHAHAHAHA!

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I do ramble on a lot... just not always in the same blog! :p  This blog originally started as a replacement for my other blogs, that I thought were lost to me forever... but I do plan on keepin up this blog. Its just I've been posting to the others a bit more often lately. Too much on my mind and I don't want to get this blog confused from what I have already started to post about here with what I post on the other blogs. Too wordy? Well too bad, LMAO! That's me.

Thanks for following me here so far! I can't wait to see who follows my other blogs as well!

Fair warning- my venting hole is pretty intense sometimes... don't say I didn't warn you!!! >.<

Friday, September 14, 2012

New news on immigration

If you haven't heard already, the first DACA approvals are going out!  This has to be awesome news for many.  The Immigration Impact newsletter has some great information about that:
Immigrationimpact.com-What early DACA application numbers tell us about the future of the program

I am very interesting in hearing how this progresses.

On a personal note- I normally do not go into politics, but I am personally endorsing having Obama in office for another term. I am not happy with what has happened so far, but I would rather have him in office than Romney- that man spells disaster for immigration, and will make things worse than Obama has.

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

In Rememberance...

We can not forget how we felt after seeing the images of the Twin towers in ruins, the pentagon on flames, and the smouldering hole in the ground in PA. Take a moment today to pray for peace.

Thursday, April 19, 2012

:o( No more Colton Dixon on IDOL

My top IDOL fave was just voted off today. :o(

Here is the video of his goodbye performance. Made me cry a river!!!




He is such a talented guy, down to earth, reaches out to his fans both spiritually and musically. I am convinced that he is destined for an even more meaningful path, and that God has given him this opportunity to share with the world his amazing musical talent and to also share with the world what love for God can do for you.

I can't wait to see where he goes with his career and I can't wait to purchase his first album! ;o)

(maybe if I'm lucky I will be able to see him in the Summer IDOL Tour!)

Saturday, March 31, 2012

Sad Anniversary today...

March 31, 1995 was a sad day indeed.

That was the day we lost an upcoming star, who was already a star outside of the US, but just starting to make her music more known by entering the English music industry.  Although she was born in Lake Jackson, Texas, and truly spoke no Spanish until she started singing, she did not start her musical career well known in the US.

Selena Quintanilla Perez was born April 16, 1971 and was murdered March 31, 1995

I first heard her 2 "crossover" songs I could fall in love  and  Dreaming of you on the radio in the fall of 1995. I fell in love with her voice, and promptly went out and got her cd, not even knowing about what had happened to her just a few months before. I didn't hear about her death until the one year anniversary was being celebrated! I was so devastated cause I absolutely adored her music!!!

To be honest with you, I was just barely starting my senior year of high school when I started listening to her. I had already been taking Spanish classes in high school, but I truly started learning when I started both listening to her songs and trying to sing them, as well as start working in a restaurant with predominately Spanish speaking workers.  The first song I actually learned to sing in Spanish was Selena's Bidi Bidi Bom Bom. :o)



I AM SO SAD right now....

I just still cannot believe that 17 years ago she was murdered heartlessly... She was such a beautiful person, inside AND out, had a voice that everyone loved!!! She never had a chance to show the world her full potential. She was only 23 years old. She had a music career that was just starting to bloom, a fashion line just starting to gain popularity, a husband and the goal to have a family... :'(

This picture was taken at the Houston Astrodome in February of 1995- her last live concert.

RIP SELENA QUINTANILLA PEREZ
4/16/71 - 3/31/95
♥♥♥Con Tu Adios Te Llevas Mi Corazon♥♥♥
SIEMPRE VIVERAS

Friday, March 30, 2012

Obama administration proposes changes to legal status applications

Obama administration proposes changes to legal status applications

According to this article, the process will change for undocumented immigrants with American spouses, which means they will not have to wait as long as before when they apply for their residency visa. Also, this change will allow spouses to make a claim of "extreme hardship,"
The Obama administration is proposing to make it easier for illegal immigrants who are family members of American citizens to apply for legal permanent residency. On Monday, the Department of Homeland Security will post for public comment an administrative change intended to reduce the time illegal immigrants would have to spend away from their families while applying for legal status, officials said....but under the proposed change illegal immigrants could claim the time apart from a spouse, child or parent would create “extreme hardship” and allow them to remain in the U.S. as they begin the process.

This is extremely good news for the thousands of families that are currently living in fear of separation, and even the families that have a father or mother currently being held in detention solely on the basis of their undocumented immigration status..

I am starting to become hopeful that my family can be reunited in the United States, after reading this. Life has been tiring not knowing what will happen with our family. My husband is desperate to come back to the US and work so that we can finally save money and live the life that we were planning on before. He is so desperate that he is willing to risk the possibility of getting his papers again by crossing illegally. I'm praying daily that he understands the dangers of that and changes his mind and realizes that it's not worth the risk nor the headache.

I will be watching news on this development VERY closely over the next few weeks and months!

Square

I normally don't promote products that I'm not actually selling, but I had such a great customer service experience that I had to tell everyone about it!!


I'm talking about Square.


I first came across Square when the local coffee shop started using Square for credit card payments about the first of March. So I paid with my card, and then signed the slip on their Ipad with my finger... which I thought was pretty cool. Then there was the option to have my receipt emailed or sent to me via text message, so I opted for the text message. Probably 15 seconds later, I get that ring for a message on my phone, and low and behold- there was my receipt! ;o)  Along with the message receipt was a link to download the free app for my Android phone that would allow me to open a tab and just have the merchant charge my card without me actually having to swipe it each time. So I downloaded the app, which was called Card Case. Pretty neat little app. I was surprised at how many different merchants near me were listed as accepting Square.  


Anyway, I was easily able to set up my account, save my card information on my account, add a picture to my account (which is how the merchant can verify you are who you say you are), and save my favorite merchants to my card case.


However, I was running into a problem. I was unable to open a tab so that when I walked into the merchant I could just tell them to put it on my tab. So I emailed customer service on the 15th.. I received a prompt response, faster than the "up to 24 hours" stated on their website. And the response was not one of those cookie cutter form responses either:
Thanks for writing in. It sounds like you have experienced a small glitch with your mobile device. It is hard to say whether the cause of the glitch came from your mobile device or from the app itself. When these sort of problems occur, we like to recommend the following troubleshooting tips:

1.) Make sure that both your mobile device and the Square app are up-to-date. 

2.) Log out of and back in to the app. 

3.) Turn your mobile device off and on.

4.) Force quit the app on your device. You can find instructions on how to do so here: help.squareup.com/customer/portal/articles/179237

5.) Delete and and re-install the app. See Apple's support site (http://support.apple.com/kb/ts1702) and Google's support site (https://market.android.com/support/bin/answer.py?answer=113409) for instructions on how to do so. 

Note: Deleting and reinstalling the app will have no impact on your Square account, as your data is stored on Square servers. Once you've deleted the app, you can simply reinstall and log back in to your account with the email address and password you already have to access all of your account information.

These tips should fix most problems. Feel free to write back in if you continue to have trouble. 



Ok. I went back through and did each step that was suggested, but I was still having problems. So I emailed back (and I will post the rest of the conversation, mine in red and Square in blue): 
I'm not sure what is going on, but I went down the list and did each item,
and I still am not getting the open tab selection. I have the Samsung Epic
smart phone with the Android OS through the Sprint Network... currently up
to date. I went into the coffee shop today, and still was not able to do
more than just click on enable tab or view the details of the shop.


Thanks for writing in. What happens when you click on open tab? Typically when you click open tab you will become visible to the merchant and you will be able to tell the merchant to just put it on your tab.
I look forward to hearing back from you.  


I wish I could get a screen shot... I don't get the "open tab" option. That's the problem. It only says "enable tab," and when I click on that it will say "tabs now enabled"  but it doesn't change to "open tab."  I do make sure that my gps and wireless are enabled as well, but that does not make a difference.


Thanks for your reply. Can you check that your location/GEO-location services are turned on? Thanks for your patience. I'm trying to see what might be the issue here. 


Yes, each time I go to the location I make sure my GPS is on. I don't normally have it on, but will turn it on before I get to the location.
Thanks for your reply. Can you send any other details about what you are seeing? 

There should basically be two options when you want to use your tab at a store. 

1. If you are close to the location, you should be able to click on the card and press "My Tab." Then you should be able to slide the "Auto Open Tab" to "On."
2. If you are not close to the location, you will see some sort of a message that says "X mi away, too far to open tab."

Sometimes if you are not able to open a tab, but you are clearly at the location, it could either be because the GPS/location services within your mobile device is off or the merchant has an incorrect address listed. Sometimes within Android phones, there are multiple location settings. Just to make sure, can you do the following:

- Visit your location settings. 
- Make sure your carrier locations are disabled. 
- GPS should be the only option enabled. 

Thanks for your patience on this. If you can try to open a tab anywhere else, or perhaps try again at the coffee shop, that would be most helpful. Any additional info will help us troubleshoot further



So after that last email, I continued to check daily, but hadn't had the opportunity to email back and let them know I was still having problems. But then over this past weekend I got a notification of an update available for Square, so I clicked on the update and it downloaded a new version of the app. I tried to open it when I was at home to see what the new app looked like, but since I did not have my wireless or my GPS turned on I was unable to open the app. Then yesterday I went to the coffee shop, and as I was on my way over there I turned on wireless and GPS, and as I got closer to the shop, I was able to open the app. It asked me to add my name to my profile picture, which it hadn't done before. Then when I clicked on the tab option it actually opened the tab. While I was there having my coffee, the owner said, "Wow. Your picture actually shows up now!" referring to her end of the app. All she needed to do was tap on my name and then add the order and tap pay- and in less than a minute I got a notification that I paid for my coffee! No more taking out my card each time I go in!!


Well, I wrote back to the Square customer service:
I just wanted to let you know that when I upgraded my square app to the new one, I was finally able to open my tab with no problem. I think it was an issue with my phone and the old app. As long as I have both my wireless and GPS activated, then my tab is opening automatically now when I go to the coffee shop. Thank you for trying to help me. I am very impressed with the level of service I received.


I was shocked, then, when the customer service rep responded within 10 minutes!
Thanks for writing back and letting me know. I'm so glad I was able to help you troubleshoot the issue. 

If you run into any other questions along the way, please write back in. 



To me that shows that Square is serious about business, and genuinely care about their customers. I am highly recommending to everyone that using Square, even if it's just for making payments to your favorite merchants, is the right way to go. The coffee shop owners think it's wonderful as well, and the rate for accepting credit cards seems to be very competitive to other merchant services that I have looked into. The card reader is so cute and surprisingly smaller than I thought it would be, and fits any smart phone, like Android powered ones and Iphones, as well as tablets like the Ipad. I may just end up with a merchant account with Square sometime soon for my Candle business!!!

Thursday, March 29, 2012

American Idol 3/28/12


Were you as blown away by the performances by the top 9 as I was??? I mean HELLO?? BEST SEASON EVER!!!!

I am sooooo falling in love with Colton Dixon. Wow. He is totally my dream man- he can sing, he can play piano, he is Christian, and he is georgeous!!! LOL! Yup, I am totally crushing on him right now! ;o) His performance of "Everything" by Lifehouse made me cry. I ♥ that song, and he just... um, yeah. Made me cry, honest to goodness.

My second favorite performance of the night was Jessica Sanchez's rendition of "Sweet Dreams" by Beyonce. Wow, that girl has an amazing voice and control for her age!! She has shown consistency since her audition, and I have a feeling she will be in the top 3 at the very least!

Then I loved Joshua Ledet's performance of "Without you" by Mariah Carey. That performance also made me cry, and no, it was not because he started to break down. That song just hit a sensitive heart string with me, considering where my life is right now and how I am missing my husband right now. Yesterday was our 15 year wedding anniversary. 

Anyway, my last favorite performance was Elise Testone's version of "Whole Lotta Love" by none other than Led Zepplin. What can I say? That girl knows how to ROCK!!! Amazing! ;o) She can sing just about anything and make it sound good.

But, Holy toledo, they ALL performed amazingly. I was SOOOO loving Heejun Han's performance of a song I have not heard before "A Song For You" by Donny Hathaway, but it was so appropriate for his current situation, and he finally came out of his shell! Hollie Cavanagh sung that Carrie Underwood song "Jesus Take the Wheel" beautifully as well. Phillip Phillips did an amazing job with "Still Rainin" by Johnny Lang. Skylar Laine did amazing with that Miranda Lambert song "Gunpowder and Lead" which was another song I had not heard before (I'm not much of a country fan). And last but not least DeAndre Brakensick did very well with Eric Benet's "Sometimes I Cry." 

Oh and the trios... they do just as well singing together as they do solo. I just absolutely loved the trio of Colton, Phillip, and Elise singing Fleetwood's "Landslide," "Don't Stop," and Stevie Nicks "Edge of Seventeen." Heejun, Joshua, and DeAndre singing the Michael Jackson songs "Pretty Young Thing," "Lady in My Life," and "Rock with You" was interesting. And the all girl trio of Hollie, Jessica, and Skylar of Madonna's "Like a Prayer," "Borderline," and "Express Yourself" was just amazing!!!

But in the end, I had to narrow it down to my personal favorites since the beginning. I voted for Elise, Jessica, and of course Colton! ;o) Those the three I want to see in the top 3. Those are the three that I see going all the way. I could say more, but I think I'll leave it at that! :o) If, sadly, you missed it, you should check out the performances at http://www.americanidol.com/videos/season_11/performances/. :o)

Colton Dixon - Everything by Lifehouse



OMG, I am falling in love with Colton and his voice!!! LOL! March 28 is a special day for me anyway, because it is my wedding anniversary. This year we celebrated 15 years! Watching Colton perform on American Idol earlier made me cry- he sang a condensed version of this song, but did an equally amazing job, and it made me cry. I miss my husband so much right now. This is the first year we have been separated.

Ok, I know that this song is originally sung by Lifehouse, and I absolutely love that group. I also know the song was written as a Christian song. I think that is why I love it the most. The words make me think about how much I love my husband, as much as I love God.  It's hard to be separated from the love of your life.

Sunday, March 18, 2012

Couple Wins Suit, Doc Didn't Suggest Aborting Baby With Down Syndrome | LifeNews.com

I'm sorry. This is just a sad day. I guess it's OK to contemplate MURDER if someone is DISABLED, according to this:
Couple Wins Suit, Doc Didn't Suggest Aborting Baby With Down Syndrome | LifeNews.com

WTF???? I know I'm not the only person who is bothered by this outcome. Life is precious, no matter what. ALL children are gifts from God, and neither the courts nor doctors can tell us that it's alright to abort just because of a diagnosis of Down Syndrome.

Between this and that other case of the parents being stripped of their rights to keep their kids based solely on immigration status- I'm seriously re-thinking about staying in the US.

Saturday, March 17, 2012

Does this bother you like it bothers me??

I have had nothing against what our soldiers are doing across the pond, other that I believe that they should not be there in the first place.

However I came across something this morning that has bothered me all day, and I just couldn't wait until I was home so I could blog about it.

Now, I'm going to say a little disclaimer here: I 100% support our troops. I also 100% support animal shelters and the work they do to try and save animals from unnecessary euthanasia.

SO here what has been bothering me all day about those two items: www.thepuppyrescuemission.org

Why is this necessary, when here in the US we have so many homeless animals that are looking to be adopted or be euthanized?

And these dogs and cats from the other side of the world carry diseases that our animals may not have been exposed to. I know that they are routinely treated for the usual, but what if the veterinarians miss something? And our troops don't need to worry so much about animals when humans are the ones needing a bigger rescue.

Don't get me wrong, I am an animal lover myself. If I could I would rescue all of them as well. But are we, as Americans, paying taxes for the troops to go and fight a supposed war and be humanitarian ambassadors, or are we paying the taxes so they can goof off and then bring home stray dogs and cats when we have so many shelters overflowing here?

I'm sorry. Like I said, I 100% support our troops, and 100% support animal shelters.  Just putting the two together just seems wrong to me.

I had to get that off my chest.

Friday, March 16, 2012

EOD Airman nominated for Bronze Star

I've always been appreciative of the soldiers that are deployed. However, I have not personally known anyone who has gone overseas until I reconnected with two childhood friends, who happened to be part-time neighbors of mine when  I was growing up. Then I found out that they both went through military school and have been assigned to Afghanistan and Iraq, among other assignments. Now, one has been back in Afghanistan since the early part of this year, and she and her husband are on the same team. Her sister posted this link on Facebook: EOD Airman nominated for Bronze Star.

I am even more grateful to know Diana Guinn and her twin sister Jenna Kramer Williams. Although I have not had the opportunity to meet their husbands, I feel amazed at knowing them and what they do for our country. Especially Kenny now. I know that Diana must have had her heart stop when they got the call, until she knew that Kenny was safe and turned out to be the lifesaver of the mission.

For whatever it's worth- I consider Diana and Jenna to be family. We grew up together, when they came to visit their grandparents who lived next door to me, and then went to school together for a while when their family was going through a rough spot and the lived with their grandparents. I love these two ladies like family, and that just has to include their husbands. :o)

Life is precious, we all know that. But the EOD specialists, and all deployed soldiers, understand that on a deeper level. I will continue to pray for them that they are all able to come home safe! Thank you for all that you have done Diana, Kenny, Jenna, and her husband who's name completely escapes me, LOL! Diana and Kenny, continue to stay safe over there and come home safe! ;o)

Monday, March 12, 2012

This is how I feel about Immigration...and my family's personal story


If you are against immigration, then don´t read this.

Dh and I have been married now for 15years as of the 28th of this month. When we met, he was an "illegal alien."  I despise that term. Aliens we are not. We were born on Earth, not Mars or Jupiter. Illegal... well, if one person is illegal we all should be. We are ALL immigrants! The US was based on immigration.
So, when DH and I got married, we ended up going the civil route, just becasue at the time, and rather conveniently, there was a general amnesty of some sorts allowing people to apply for thier residency. So we jumped on the chance for him to become a legal resident and married earlier than we origninally planned.  We applied for his residency in 1997.  Then, somehow we missed an appointment. Don´t know how or why, but we had to reapply again in 2000.  This time everything went smoothly and DH recieved his permanent resident card in 2002.
But not all was peachy. There are so many stupid rules and regs to residency, and the officials do not tell you about all of them. There is a minimum 7 year probation period. That means you get your residency card, but are not considered permanent until the 7 years time has passed. So if anything happens that causes your residency to be challenged, you loose out on the opportunity to apply for citizenship.
So here´s what happened to DH:  a co-worker of his had been on his back for over a year for dh to help him cross his children over the border. Dh kept telling him no. So in ´07, dh goes to visit his mom, like he did every year. On his way back, his co-worker once again asked him to help, and dh broke down and said, ok fine.  Well, Dh had been right to say no, becasue he was stopped at the border crossing with the kids, only becasue the kids said something that was suspicious to the border agent. He was detained, but then released and allowed to come home. I still don´t understand how or why the decision was made to allow him to come home instead of taking his papers away immediatly, like you hear about so often. We immediatly aquired a lawyer and started the proccess of fighting the deportation order he was given. Nearly three years, many trips to Immigration court in San Diego, and 10thousand dollars later our lives were suddenly put on hold.
In June of 09 we were supposed to have recieved a letter from immigration on the outcome of our second phase, which was an appeal of the immigration judge´s desicion. We recieved a letter in the mail that stated, "the decision is on the following page. The decision is final." The second page was BLANK! So we immediatly called the lawyer and asked what was going on. The lawyer said he didn´t know and would find out and let us know. A month went by and we had no word from the lawyer, so we call again in July. Still no answer. Then we called twice in August, with the same results. The lawyer was supposedly still trying to get an answer from immigration.
September 1, I was leaving the apartment to take the kids to school when two people arrived. I was already in the car, waiting on my daughter to come down. When she finally got in, she said that those people were looking for her dad.  As I am on my way to drop of my son to middle school, DH texts me with "hurry home its the police" and my heart drops to my feet. What the heck was going on?
I rush to drop off DS1 and then DD and rush home again. As soon as I get home, the two people who were arriving are inside my apartment talking with DH. They introduce themselves as homeland security agents and explain that DH had an order of deportation that was issued since June. SAY WHAT???? They had to take DH to their office in San Fransisco, but they would try and get his deportation order temporarily lifted due to our circumstance. On that day we were frantically working on packing our apartment because we were evicted and had less than one week to vacate and move.
The one reason they didn´t take him when I left the house was becasuse I had left ds2 with DH, who at the time was only 11 months old. They paitently waited for me to come home.
As soon as they were out the door with DH, I started calling  the lawyer. Throughout the day I left probably over 10 messages with the secretary, and she promised that they would take care of things. Well, that was complete bullshit.  When the lawyer finally called me back it was the next day and DH was already in TJ. What the damn lawyer told me totally blew me away. His response was "we´ve been trying to get a hold of you since June to alert you to the deportation order" WTF?  We were in constant contact with you jackass!!
So September ended up being the month from hell for me and my kids. It was extremely difficult to tell them when I picked them up from school that their dad was not going to be home and would not be able to come home for quite a while. DH finally arrived at his mom´s house three days later, after being basically thrown across the border with no identification whatsoever and no money to make calls with or to buy food.
I am so angry with the stupid immigration system right now, even after a year has passed. One of the stipulations we ran accross during the nearly three years of court proceedings was the 7 year residency probation. According to immigration court the probationary period starts when the official residency card is issued. But there have been cases where the supreme court allowed the probationary period to be counted from the day the official social security number and the work permit was issued. In that case, DH had nearly 10 years of residency. But according to immigration court his residency was only 5 years.
So what did this all mean for my family?
My kids had to live for 3.5 months without thier father. I had to scramble to find a place where all four of us could live that I could afford to pay on my small salary from my brand new job. I also had to scramble to find daycare for the little guy. It also meant I had to go on food stamps and welfare. I felt like life was over. I felt low. It was the worst 3.5 months in my entire life. My oldest started failing his classes, and he had always been a top student. My daughter started acting out and fighting with me all the time. The baby couldn´t sleep through the night anymore. I lost a lot of weight because we didn´t have enough money for food, even with the food stamps and welfare in addition to my job.
By December, I had reached a major decision, in which my kids whole heartedly agreed with- move to Mexico.  So December 8, 2009 we packed our car to the brim with clothes, computers, and as much else as we could, and left California. The rest of our personal belongings, such as furniture, other clothes, books, movies, etc., was put into a storage. With my dad´s blessing we were able to keep the storage- he offered to help by paying the monthly storage fee.
As of, September 2010, we were happily living in Mexico, living in our own house, running our own business, and much better off than we had been the past 14 years living in California.   Our lives had improved drastically in less than one year, and all just by leaving the United States.
DH is hopeful that he can reapply for residency, but I am extremely doubtfull the all so wonderful United States government will accept him back with open arms.  In the meantime, I plan on staying here in Mexico, where I feel more secure and much more at peace. (Ok, so I wrote this back in 2010... Today, obviously I am not in Mexico... more on that later.)
And all I have to say to anyone who want´s to get rid of the "illegal immigrants" is-
GET A LIFE! GO RAIN ON SOMEONE ELSES PARADE!

Sunday, March 11, 2012

Daily Rambling #14-AAAAAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!

OH MY GOODNESS!!!!!


I FOUND MY OLD EMAIL ADDRESS AND OLD PASSWORD!!!!


THAT MEANS I HAVE MY OLD BLOGS BACK!!!!!


AND YES I AM SO DARN EXCITED I HAVE TO SCREAM!!!!     :D


So what this means is that I will continue to post just information about Immigration, and Online Ventures on this blog, but I will now revert back to my Health and Wellness blog and my regular venting hole, LOL... which also means that this blog will get a new title and new description, I think. That last part I'm not sure about, but I have a little while to think about how I am going to deal with this. I am going to try and figure out how to bring the old blogs to this new email address, and/or be able to access them from this blog interface.

I AM SO EXCITED!!!! WHOOOOHOOOOOO!!!!!!
(see, good things come from going through old papers in old boxes, LOL)

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Immigration problems- too many families lives are so F#$%D up.

You will never understand what it is like to live in fear of deportation unless you are married to or dating an undocumented immigrant from whatever country they may be from. A friend shared this article with some of us moms who know what life is like with an undocumented immigrant:
Illegal Immigrant Loves Wife From Across Border - ABC News


The story bring tears to my eyes... In a way I'm living a similar life that Augustin and Ana are living. Love across borders. It's not right.
It's a common misconception that an illegal alien married to a U.S. citizen is immediately granted "green card" status or citizenship. But Ana and Agustin, and thousands of couple like them, know the truth...Ana, 60, is an immigrant from El Salvador who was allowed to become a U.S. citizen because of her homeland's war-torn past. She has a son who is a legal resident in Las Vegas and another son who is an illegal immigrant in Los Angeles. Her three grandchildren were born in the United States.   Agustin, 49, is an illegal immigrant from Mexico without much money, an unattractive candidate for legal status under U.S. immigration law.  They can live together in one of the poor, violence-plagued nations that they fled decades ago, or they can live like this, divided by a man-made border, desperate for the U.S. government to bless their marriage and unite their lives once again.Agustin, 49, is an illegal immigrant from Mexico without much money, an unattractive candidate for legal status under U.S. immigration law.
There are many more families that are living this way, and the US government refuses to acknowledge us or make any changes to the law to help us.


And when you think it can't get any worse, there's the sad story about a father that was deported and was the caregiver for his wife and kids... and now he is not allowed to have his kids in Mexico with him... North Carolina CPS wants to strip him of his parental rights.You can read the full article here: http://www.startribune.com/nation/142093133.html


 When immigration agents deported Felipe Montes to Mexico two years ago, his three young sons were left in the care of their mentally ill, American-born mother in a small North Carolina mountain town.
Despite immigration policies that allow for the release of primary caregivers, federal authorities worked swiftly to expel Montes. Within two weeks, social workers placed the boys in foster care.
Child welfare officials are now asking a judge to strip Montes of his parental rights, reasoning it's better for the children to live with strangers in the country where they were born than with their father in Mexico. Such a ruling could clear the way for their adoption. Montes' lawyer says the father is at risk of being deemed an unfit parent solely because of his immigration status.Like thousands of deported parents whose children were taken in by the foster care system, Montes is barred from returning to visit his kids or attend court hearings on their future. He wants his boys to live with him in El Encino, a small village in the Mexican state of Tamaulipas, but county officials have declined to allow it.

And the government claims that they are not looking to separate families intentionally... Bunch of BULLS@#T I say... The NC "officials" are not allowing this father to have his own children sent to him solely because he has no running water in his town. For no other reason. So if that's such a problem, then why don't they just spend the money they are wasting on putting his children in foster care and instead send the money to Mexico and help put in reliable water systems? Whatever.


This article also proves that local police do racial profiling. Police Chief Bob Lane confirmed that his officers sometimes pulled Montes solely because they recognized him. In little more than two years, court records show Montes was cited more than two dozen times for driving with an expired license, an expired registration and without insurance. That is against the Constitution, but does the government even care??? NOT AT ALL!


Based on  the second article, I am more convinced that living in the US is not better for families. Even a few of my fellow mothers that have immigrant spouses are considering moving to Canada, where immigration policies are supposedly WAY less strict than the US. My husband is thinking that maybe we should do the same as well. :o(

Friday, March 9, 2012

Daily Rambling #13- Hmm, It's my lucky number, LOL!

And to top it off, I want to celebrate today...

12 years ago, on this day, at 10:30 am I went to the hospital for a non-stress test- I was pregnant with my second child. The nurses put me on pitossin, just to see how the baby would react as part of the non-stress test. Well, when it was time for the test to be over, I was contracting very regularly...

The nurses gave me two options. One, they would administer the medicine to stop the contractions, since my due date was still another 11 days away, and then I could go home. Two, I could stay and have the baby that day.

What do you think I said?? OH YEAH!! I said, "I'M STAYING!!!!"

My daughter was born at 7:51pm that night!! ;o)  March 9, 2000. She weighed in at 7lbs 13 oz, which was tiny to me since my oldest weighed 8lbs 15oz when he was born.

This picture was taken when she was 1week old!! :o)

HAPPY 12th BIRTHDAY 
TO MY PRECIOUS DAUGHTER 
MARIE ARIADNE SANDOVAL!

Marie Ariadne Sandoval  May, 2008